In the last century this was a comforting statement to welcome a new employee.
However, now that times have changed and we have learnt to separate our personal life from our professional life, the last thing you want to have is a boss behaving like he’s your father.
We all know there is no perfect family.
This post’s title implies several kinds of work behaviours we (should) have left behind and they all have one thing in common: basing professional actions/decisions in personal opinions and personality traits.
Starting with the hiring process, would you hire someone solely because he/she was lovely during the interview? One would be surprised…
I am not saying one should completely ignore all personality traits. In the end of the day it is always more pleasant to work with a nice person than a ‘moany’ one.
However if the job is being carried out to good standards, would you penalise your employee because he/she has a more difficult personality?
My point is: adaptability. As a freelancer I learnt to leave some personality habits aside and adjust to the company I am working for at the moment.
On top of everything, professional life gets more difficult when you are faced with favouritism, based on affinities instead of performance.
Even when there is mistake after mistake made, you won’t do anything about your member of staff because he’s like a son to you.
All this behaviour leads ultimately to the biggest mistake: taking things personally.
Very often, when you tell an employee or co-worker “you’ve made a mistake“, what they hear is “you’re stupid“. Unfortunately it has nothing to do with hearing problems.
Now that I am about to finish it is hard to believe I felt the need to write a post about this issue considering that the standards of professionalism expected from us are only and constantly getting higher and higher.
Go, Lanjal! 